
About Course
Divorce is hard. For parents, it can feel like the collapse of a dream—the unraveling of a family you worked so hard to build. The legal process often pits parents against each other, adding fuel to an already painful fire. In the midst of this, it’s easy to lose sight of the one thing that matters most: your children’s mental and emotional wellbeing.
This course offers a clear and compassionate path forward. Created and co-taught by Kerry Stutzman and Palmer Skudneski—a mother and son who lived through one of the most high-conflict, protracted, and alienating custody cases in Colorado history—it brings both lived experience and professional insight to the table. Kerry is a licensed marriage and family therapist with decades of experience guiding parents through divorce. Palmer, her son, holds a Master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Northwestern and is a sought-after life coach for teens.
Together, they blend personal resilience with clinical wisdom to illuminate what kids really need when their family is redefined. Through professionally filmed video lessons and interactive exercises inspired by the Socratic method, you’ll learn how to:
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Build a vision of your restructured family
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Understand and name the emotions your tweens and teens are facing
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Identify and mitigate the impact of Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs)
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Help your kids navigate life in two homes
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Recognize early signs of alienation
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Keep lines of communication open
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Approach dating and step-parenting with care and clarity
If you’re ready to do the hardest thing—lead with love while managing loss—this course will show you how. Your kids are counting on you. Let’s give them the best chance to thrive.
Course Content
Intro
Our Story
In this opening module, Kerry and Palmer share their personal experience with high-conflict divorce to reveal universal truths about alienation, grief, and resilience—and to highlight the patterns and choices that can help protect your child’s sense of self.
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Our Story
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The Parent’s Creed – Introduction
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Parents Creed (not table of contents, simply 10 best action items)
Your Redefined Family – a vision for what comes next
This module helps you create a clear, intentional vision for your redefined family—one that brings consistency, connection, and hope to your kids, even across two households.
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Introduction – This Is the Hard Part (But It Matters Most)
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Learning Objectives
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Quote (Image)
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Topic Hook (Joint Video) (3 minutes)
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Theory (Joint Video) 2-3 minutes
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Research & Stats (Joint Video) 3-4 minutes
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Divorce Professional Video
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Narrative Visualization (Text > Answer Submission) (needs to be done)
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Practical Strategies
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Guiding Values
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Family Culture and Norms
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Fostering an Independent Identity
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The Power of Peer Connections
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Parent of Divorce Video
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Story or Role Play
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4.1. What I Wish I Knew
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5. DO’S AND DON’TS
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6. FOR A DEEPER DIVE: Resources
Keeping your kids talking
To raise emotionally healthy kids, parents must create a consistently safe, empathetic, and connected relationship—where structure and nurture coexist—so children feel free to talk, especially during struggles, without fear of judgment or disconnection.
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Introduction
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Learning Objectives (Text > Submission)
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Quote (Image)
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Topic Hook (Kerry Video) (3 minutes)
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Pre-Test Reflection (Text > Answer Submission w/AI engagement)
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Adult Child of Divorce Video – Anabelle
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Theory (Joint Video) 2ish minutes
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Research & Stats (Joint Video)
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Divorce Professional Video – Auggie
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Narrative Visualization (Text > Answer Submission)
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Practical Strategies
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Parent of Divorce Video – Brett
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Story or Role Play (AI Script and Video)
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Wrap-Up Teaching Points
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CLOSING SCRIPT
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“Bring it” Challenge
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What I Wish I Knew (Slides)
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DO’S AND DON’TS (Video)
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Communication Do’s
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Communication Don’ts
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Quick Reference Guide
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Books
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Articles & Research
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Online Resources
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Professional Development
Living in two houses: navigating the transitions while helping it still feel like a family
This module offers practical strategies to help kids navigate the emotional and logistical challenges of living in two homes—while preserving their sense of stability, connection, and family identity.
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Introduction (Text)
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Learning Objectives (Text)
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Quote (Image)
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Topic Hook (Joint Video) (3 minutes)
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Pre-Test Reflection
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Adult Child of Divorce Video – Saragam
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Theory (Individual Video – 2 minutes)
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Research & Stats (Individual Video – 1.5 minutes)
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Divorce Professional Video – Langdon
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Narrative Visualization (Text > Answer Submission)
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Practical Strategies – Teaching Points
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Parent of Divorce Video – David Avrin?
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Story/Role Play Example – AI Video?
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Real Stories – convert to quiz
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DO’S AND DON’TS
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FOR A DEEPER DIVE: Resources
Your Child’s Emotional World: Below the Surface
This module helps parents recognize and support the grief their kids experience during divorce—creating space for big emotions, validating their pain, and fostering emotional healing in a time of profound change.
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Introduction
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Learning Objectives (Text > Submission)
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Quote (Image)
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Topic Hook (Joint Video) (3 minutes)
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Pre-Test Reflection (Text + submission)
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Theory (Joint Video) 2-3 minutes
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Research & Stats (Joint Video) 3-4 minutes
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Divorce Professional Video – Janelle Althen
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Narrative Visualization (Text > Answer Submission)
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Practical Strategies
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Parent of Divorce Video – TBD (David Avrin)
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Story or Role Play
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4.1. What I Wish I Knew
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5. DO’S AND DON’TS (Video Read Aloud)
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FOR A DEEPER DIVE: Resources
Caught in the Middle: Recognizing and Preventing Parental Alienation
This module helps parents recognize early signs of alienation, reflect on their own behavior, and take proactive steps to protect their child’s emotional connection with both parents.
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Introduction (Text)
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Learning Objectives (Text)
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Quote (Image)
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Topic Hook (Join Video) (3 minutes)
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Pre-Test Reflection (Quiz Format )
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Adult Child of Divorce Video – Landon
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Theory (Joint Video) – should we break this lesson into parts?
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Research & Stats (Joint Video)
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Divorce Professional Video – Athena
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Narrative Visualization (Text > Answer Submission x 2)
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Practical Strategies (Joint Video – see slides embedded below)
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Parent of Divorce Video – TBD
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Story or Role Play (AI Video)
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What I Wish I Knew (Text > Submission)
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DO’S AND DON’TS (Video with Tip Sheet) -needs slides and tip sheet. see Notion
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Communication Do’s
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Behavioral Do’s
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What to Avoid
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FOR A DEEPER DIVE: Resources – (Text)
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Warning Signs of Alienation (video)